Are we confusing and ual ault?

This may sound like a weird question. In U.K and some other European countries is defined with any penile of the human body. In Scotland its only defined between man and woman. According to the law in some states, any insertion of finger or foreign object into human body qualifies for . So if your doctor gives you a rectal exam with gloves without acknowledging you before or if your meur's fingers accidentally slide even slightly or if you have buddies in the football team who think its funny to haze their friends under the shower can you sue them for ? Would you guys feel like you are d and have emotional trauma if any of these events happen just like in the case of prison s? Because according to these laws even the kids can be qualified for this offence.