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The heels are a bit too much and I would tell him there is no way. Over time they can do damage to you and they are very uncomfortable to wear all the time. There are many women who are uncomfortable in sleeveless tops, and you should not be forced to wear anything that makes you feel self conscious. I feel like you need to sit him down and tell him how you really feel. He obviously thinks you are very y and just wants to see more of your body, but you need to let him know how you feel. If he does not love you enough to back off, then maybe he is not the one for you.